Is there ever a point where a person is beyond redeeming?
This question occurred to me when I read David’s comment in response to my Death Penalty blog post, where he wrote: “I’m a sucker for redemption.” It got me thinking… There are many reasons for criminal incarceration, one being the idea of rehabilitation. But can everyone be rehabilitated? Or are some people beyond any hope?
WriterChick’s comment to the same post brought up the valid point that some types of criminals seem to have no “cure” for their compulsions. When they are released, they typically go back to the same crimes.
In a similar vein, consider the wife whose husband constantly cheats on her. We’ve all heard this story a million times. When she catches him, he cries and begs for forgiveness. She takes him back, and before long he’s back to his old ways. How many times have we cringed when we’ve seen politicians’ wives take back their cheating husbands, because we all know it’s just going to keep on happening?
Of course, every now and then, you find someone who is truly sorry and really doesn’t go back to his old habits. But those seem to be few and far between.
So how do you know if someone is redeemable, a part of those few exceptions? And if there is a point when someone can no longer change, how do you know when he or she has reached that point?
I don’t have the answers, but I’m curious what people reading this blog think. I know that a certain sect of Christianity, called Calvinists, believe people don’t have any free will at all and that some people are created for “destruction.” The unfortunate side effect of this belief is that some use it to never take responsibility for their actions. They don’t have to feel guilt because God made them do it, after all.
Then there are people like me who believe life is a mysterious merging of Calvinism and Armenianism. But that’s for a different post that I probably won’t ever write.
So, what do you think? Can anyone be rehabilitated? Or are some people simply beyond saving?



